If your male partner has a birthday, anniversary or other special occasion coming up, why not think outside the box for his gift? Don’t go for the usual clothes or gadgets, or whatever it is that they favour. Instead, why not spice things up in the bedroom a bit with an unexpected sexy gift?

There are a number of male sex toys on offer and whilst some of them can seem a bit scary, once you get the hang of using them – or convince your partner that it’ll actually be a lot of fun! – you can have some great experiences.

For starters, you could buy him a prostate massager. It’s a well-known fact that stimulating the prostate can bring great sexual satisfaction for a man and for those who aren’t so keen on using their own tools (their fingers), there are toys that can help you do this. Prostate massagers come in all different shapes and sizes, so there will be something out there for any real beginners in this area. Using these during intercourse can really make the experience even greater for your other half, so don’t be afraid to get and dirty!

If he is already big into anal play and prostate massage is nothing new to him, perhaps think about getting a strap-on to play with – if you’re a lady, that is (if you’re a man this tool is a little redundant!). This can make for an interesting experience for both of you. You get a chance to see what sex is like for him and also to pleasure him in a new, exciting way. If nothing else, it’s a great laugh and help you bond.

If your male partner likes to keep sexual activity to the front, then why not get him a really good gift – a Fleshlight. These are vaginal simulators designed to give a male the most realistic sexual experience as possible without a partner. They come in many different styles, shapes, sizes and colours – men can even design one from scratch! If you’re a really loving partner, then consider having a Fleshlight designed after your partner’s favourite porn star. He’ll really thank you for that gift!